This is for you guys out there who plan on getting married.......Here are some tips on how you can be a good husband......Again, they are just tips....You can take em or leave em...And even just doing 2 of these things is good :)...I am happy to say my husband does a majority of them...I am blessed.
1. Always open every door for her
2. Kiss her on the cheek in public
3. Don't always assume that a kiss leads to more....Sometimes girls just want to kiss with no expectations...
4. Tell her she looks pretty when she has no makeup on and is in her sweatpants and a college t-shirt
5. Take her somewhere at night and look at the stars
6. Let her talk about the things you usually could care less about
7. Have her pick out the movie and dinner sometimes
8. Take a day and just spend it all with her alone watching movies and cuddling together
9. Give her a foot massage...Or back massage....Or head massage...Better yet, all three :)
10. PUT THE FRIGGEN LID DOWNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
11. Don't leave the kitchen cabinets open
12. Make her a candle lit dinner...Even if it consists of mac n cheese and hot dogs...
13. It's OKAY to do the dishes sometimes
14. Surprise her with a love note and some pretty flowers you picked yourself.....
15. Take her on a walk and hold her hand
16. Tell her you love her every night and every morning
17. Kiss her every day
18. Tell her you like her cooking even if it tastes like toe jam....(yeah gross, but I didn't know what else to say)
19. Play games with her
20. Rekindle the fire as often as you can
Guys just remember that just because you get married doesn't mean that your relationship is now "done" and you can stop working for it....Marriage takes even more work to keep it strong than a boyfriend girlfriend relationship. The day you quit trying to make the marriage work is the day that it stops working....I'm not saying that it just takes you guys to keep it strong, but you are a big part of it all...You have to become the head of the house hold, therefore you have a big responsibility on your shoulders....Don't ever give up on your love for your lady....Always do you very best to make sure you both are happy with each other...And when you have kids make sure and work that much harder...Kids don't ruin things, they make things even better...You just have to find a balance and always make sure you have one on one time with your lover......<3
